Our marriage was far from fairytail bf my diagnosis. My husband was deployed when I was diagnosed and was sent back to help me and care for our children. I went through the surgry wich turned out to be more extencive than they thought and ended up staying a week in the hospital. He was helpful, but kept himself at a distance from me. I am about to start radiation theropy this coming week, and he has barely said hello to me all week. I know he is stressed from new responcibilities at work, but could he also be dealing with my sickness this way too? I have tried talking to him, but it seems to push him further away...any suggestions or simular experiences? Thanks
Maria

hi i am not quiet sure what to tell you but i am going to give you an e-mail address to which belongs to my mother.we lost my step-father june 14 last year to cancer,she is a very wise woman who can talk to you and help in alot of ways,she has been there and been through it..i urge you to contact her and let her know that her daughter sent you her information..we are facing cancer head on due to it has struck my aunt,my great uncle,my grandfather,and a cousin as well.my mother has alot of knowledge and advice to offer..her name is jimmie. her e-mail is jimmie_lou2008@yahoo.com
we will keep and hold you in our prayers..may god keep and hold you as well and keep you strong in your time of need..with love anna